It’s official: I’m a fan. Not exactly a sports fan, of course. We dropped off a son/grandson at the University of Texas for his freshman year. He’s pleased and excited, as is his family who will miss him dearly and consider his admission a miracle. His grades are fine, his scores adequate, but competition is tough.
Legacy: 6th Generation Longhorn (of limited interest to most)
Among the family stories is that he’s the sixth generation to attend. Here’s the lineup. My great-grandfather, Dr. Joe Edward Dildy, was lecturing at UT in 1918 when they closed the school for the flu epidemic. He was president of the Texas Medical Association in 1929, and a medical researcher working in central Texas told me he gave the eulogy for Dr. White. And my grandmother graduated from Hardin-Simmons University in 1918, so I suppose it’s possible. Regardless, my grandfather, Russell Trimble, did earn a law degree at UT in 1919, his children, my mother Jeanne and her brother Bernard, had business degrees in 1943 and 1947. My husband, Jerry, in 1966; me, a good bit later; my sister and my brother in 1976 and 1983, his parents in 2006. And Grayden was present at their graduation, in utero.
Full circle, all full fans except for me. The only time my grandfather watched television was when he came out for UT against A&M, traditionally played on Thanksgiving. My husband had his car tags renewed off cycle in 1969 so he could get the orange sticker in honor of their 1969 national championship. I sponsored a trip for his dad and uncle to the 2005 Rose Bowl where they beat Michigan in a memorable game. Highlights here. So, yes, I was a fan for that last few minutes. The next year, UT and USC played the Rose Bowl, but I refused sincere requests to send the children again, saying there was no way it could be as good a game as 2005. I was wrong. Highlights here. There was also the matter of his parents getting married two days later, but I’m not sure dad and uncle have forgiven me.
Advice given (general interest perhaps)
- Being there is a privilege, so study hard. Grades matter.
- Don’t sit in your room and act bored.
- Eat regular food.
- Be careful.
- Attend Institute and church activities, all of which are within walking distance. Lots of smart people. Keep the Sabbath.
- Hide valuables. Lock doors.
- Read the syllabus.
- Make sure your roommate knows your standards.
- Don’t talk about people when they might be standing behind the door or within hearing distance.
- Be careful.
- Call/FaceTime brothers and sister weekly. They miss you.
- If you are feeling low, find someone who needs help and do some service.
- Forgive so many sentences beginning with verbs. It’s because we love you. Be careful.
His dad told him goodbye and said, “I love you.” I gave him my favorite umbrella. When you open it, you see the universe printed on the underside. A metaphor, perhaps?